Are all of your needs met? Do you know why you make the decisions you do? Our needs motivate our behavior. If you respond to life’s events from a low level of survival, it’ll be more difficult to succeed in a loving relationship or keep steady employment or even gain a level of self-esteem and confidence. Let alone being able to pursue your hobby and passions. [Read more…]
Ever since its inception in the early 1800’s, many people are still unaware what hypnosis actually is. Stage performers have used it for entertainment, doctors have used it in therapy, and there are thousands of practitioners out there right now helping people quit smoking and lose weight.
But are there more sinister uses for this tool? Do you think you’re not “hypnotizable”? [Read more…]
Happiness seems to be an elusive state that fewer than more people attain. But why? Why can’t we all just “be happy”? There are two reasons: Because of what’s missing in our life, and because of what’s present in our life. That’s it! What those things are, is a different story. [Read more…]
Boundaries are the rules we set up in life that dictate the people and experiences we allow into our lives. These rules also drive our decisions and behaviors, so that we can achieve a certain level of comfort and stability.
In other words, if you feel comfortable with someone, you share and give more of yourself. You can allow yourself to be more authentic and vulnerable. And you feel safe around them. These are the people you allow into your “castle walls.” But if someone makes you feel uncomfortable, and they’re asking you to do things you don’t want to do, or pressuring you into things, these are the people you keep out beyond the moat. You don’t let them cross the bridge and into the castle, because if you do, you’ll certainly be compromised. [Read more…]