Judgment can be one of the most damaging weapons in a relationship, as it tells the other person that it’s not okay to be themselves. This builds resentment in them, and will eventually crumble even the most intimate relationships. If it doesn’t crumble, then it suffers. Today’s episode is how our triggers form our judgments, and how our judgments can ruin our life if we don’t learn what to do with them. [Read more…]
Can you accept the behaviors of those you love? If not, are you still in the relationship? You have a choice to walk away from the behaviors you can’t accept in life, or stay and accept them. In the end, what you really want is closure. Knowing the direction you need to take is a much more powerful place than waiting for something to happen. Lingering is no fun.
Click on the play button above the video to listen to the entire episode. Or choose to read it below. By the time you’re done, you’ll know if you’ve reached full acceptance of the people in your life, and if you are choosing to suffer or not. Yes, suffering can be a choice. When it comes to accepting what is, or not accepting, one choice leads to suffering, the other does not. [Read more…]
In this episode, my co-host Clark Danger and I talk about getting along with anyone. Of course, this quickly led into a talk about turning off your judgments about them and coming from a place of true authenticity. Getting along with people involves allowing them to be themselves without us turning on our critical analysis of who they are. The more comfortable people are around us, the faster and easier it is to get along with them. A great episode you won’t want to miss. [Read more…]