A few years ago I realized that I was also a manipulative person for most of my life, using my masterful communication skills to get my selfish needs met by those closest to me. In every relationship I’d ever been in I found ways to manipulate my partner. It took several breakups and finally a divorce for me to realize that my behavior was the reason for most of the heartaches I went through (and put others through). [Read more…]
Forgiveness is not about other people, it’s about you. When you can learn to forgive yourself, even when you aren’t the one to blame, you let go of the negative emotions so that you can take the learnings into your future.
Also, I talk about John Gibson, the pastor who committed suicide after hackers revealed millions of user names and detailed information about the users from the Ashley Madison infidelity and cheating site. [Read more…]
Do you fear embarrassment or going through humiliation of any kind? Who doesn’t! So in this article I’d like to discuss some steps you can take to avoid humiliating situations, and what you can do to to squash the bad feelings that arise after an embarrassing event.
Even embarrassments of years past can pop up over and over again, especially when people you know keep rehashing it. If you want to stop reliving the past or get over the shame, or even get over what you might consider the unforgivable stuff you may have done, keep reading. [Read more…]