Happening To Your Career with Scott Barlow

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money career job work paycheck quitScott Barlow, an “End-Up Prevention Specialist” (ha ha, you might need to listen to figure that one out!) joins me in a special episode about changing your career. Scott is sort of a Career Mentor, in the sense that he guides people that want to change their job into their career. He does this by walking them through a process that narrows down what they actually want to do with their life, at least when it comes to work.

But work is life, or it can be a good chunk of it. Work is something almost all of us do with the majority of our time. Even if you’re financially independent, there is usually some work involved getting there.  [Read more…]

True Wealth Starts by Doing This One Thing First

networking business relationships wealthThere’s absolutely no secret to what I’m about to tell you. People have been doing it for years, and they will continue to do it for years to come. There is one thing I learned to do that has increased all of my opportunities including romance, business, and money, and that’s this: Networking. 

Networking is all about adding human resources to your life. The more resources you have, the more options you have. The more options you have, the more you can do in your life.  “Human resources” are those people that know things that you don’t know, and have access to people you don’t have access to. [Read more…]

Reducing Negative Self-Talk

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stress overwhelm anxiety depression If the voices in your head are saying anything but positive messages to you, then this is the show for you.

Negative inner dialogue can prevent you from almost everything you want to do in life. So many opportunities will be missed, all because you listened to a voice that is likely misleading you to believing you are something less than you are.

It’s time to switch around those inner voices so that they support you, and maybe even make you laugh. [Read more…]

Closing the Past to Open the Future

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emotions depression anxiety happyWhen you have negative thoughts and emotions floating around in your head more times than not, the choices you make going forward in life are going to be influenced. After all, whatever is swimming around in your head at the time of a decision is what typically affects your decision. If you are carrying around old baggage, it’s time to drop those emotional bags off so that you can create your future without fears or worry. [Read more…]

Relationship Coaching Session with Michael and Daria

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argument, argue, relationship, coaching, couplesThis is technically part 2 of a relationship coaching session with Michael Hsu from Heal From The Ground Up, and his fiance’ Daria. For part 1, click here.

In this particular episode, I help both Michael and Daria learn to communicate in a way that is actually productive and beneficial to their relationship, instead of damaging and destructive. If you find yourself getting angry or impatient with the ones you love, this will be a particularly helpful episode for you. The heat gets turned up about half way through, so I know you’ll get a lot from this session.

It’s a long show, but it may be just what saves your own relationship, whether it’s romantic or not. [Read more…]

Relationship and Anger Coaching Session with Michael Hsu

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coaching couples anger relationshipsI seem to be doing a lot more relationship coaching lately with my friend and fellow podcaster Michael Hsu from Heal From The Ground Up. This is good for a couple of reasons:

1. I want Michael and Daria to succeed. I want them to have the happiest possible relationship they can. If it takes me pointing out how they’re miscommunicating or not fulfilling each other’s needs, then that’s what I’ll do.

2. It keeps me on my toes. I haven’t coached in many years, so it’s good to stay in practice so that I will be exposed to issues I’ve not encountered before.

In this particular episode, I play a conversation that was going to be private between me and Michael, but decided to air it anyway because it had some valuable takeaways in it. Michael gave me the okay, and now you can listen to some personal one-on-one coaching that wasn’t meant for the public. We have some fun, and I help Michael understand what he’s doing to cause himself to be so upset at his fiance’.  [Read more…]

A Practice in Mindfulness

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Practicing mindfulness has a lot of advantages that will help you become more alert, more focused, and more likely to finish what you started. I focus a lot on “focus” in this particular episode because we are simply an oversaturated, overstimulated society, and might need a refresher on what it takes to be truly mindful. The more mindful you are, the more successful you’ll be with almost anything you start – mainly because you’ll finish! [Read more…]

10 Life Lessons You Should Already Know – Part 2

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Part 2 of a two-part episode where we talk about the 10 life lessons that, if implemented, lead to peace and fulfillment. So many of us simply live day to day, trying to make the next day as good as the last, or better. The day to day can be fulfilling, or it can be grueling. If it’s the latter, it’s possible that there is a primal need at your deepest level not getting fulfilled. If that’s the case, it will be harder to attain the peace and balance you may be looking for.

This episode covers the second 5 of the lessons, and helps you understand what you may need to focus on to create a happier life for yourself. [Read more…]

10 Life Lessons You Should Already Know – Part 1

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life lessonsPart 1 of a two-part episode where we talk about the 10 life lessons that, if implemented, lead to peace and fulfillment. So many of us simply live day to day, trying to make the next day as good as the last, or better. The day to day can be fulfilling, or it can be grueling. If it’s the latter, it’s possible that there is a primal need at your deepest level not getting fulfilled. If that’s the case, it will be harder to attain the peace and balance you may be looking for.

This episode covers the first 5 of the lessons, and helps you understand what you may need to focus on to create a happier life for yourself. [Read more…]

Angry Every Day! Couples Coaching Session with Michael and Daria

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anger expression couples coachingIn relationships, sometimes there is a constant miscommunication. One person could be up, the other could be down. If one is happy, the other might be sad. And when that never goes away, the relationship wears down, and the love dissolves.

In this episode, I play a live coaching call between Michael and Daria. Since I’m on vacation this week, I didn’t create a solo episode. However, I received permission from Michael and Daria to play their session, so it became a full show.

There are a lot of good lessons in here for relating to others. If you’d like to a fly on the wall for this session, listen in! [Read more…]

Codependency: The Subtle Erosion of Love and Connection

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Codependence is when two or more people fulfill a need for each other that strengthens a dysfunction between them. You usually see this kind of thing between a helper / people-pleaser and a drug addict or an alcoholic. Of course, even someone who is just needy or desperate for attention can be the second half of a codependent relationship. In either case, there is the dysfunction of one person continuing to support the dysfunctional behavior of another. It’s the perfect imbalance of love and energy.

One person gets their needs met more and more, while the other builds resentment, but keeps on giving in to the needs of the other. I figured it was about time I talked about something I am quite familiar with from both sides! [Read more…]

Questioning Your Truths – The Philosophy of Belief

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beliefs and truthThere’s a program running in the background of your mind that drives almost all of your behavior, and that’s called your “philosophy”. Your philosophy is made up of all the beliefs and assumptions that you have about the world. Many of these beliefs and assumptions are never questioned, just followed – sometimes blindly. We dive into the philosophy that drives our decisions and actions in this episode. It might require your thinking cap, but it could be the door you were looking for to help you create and accept the changes you want to make in your life. [Read more…]

Judgment – The Ultimate Relationship Destroyer

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judgment and emotional triggersJudgment can be one of the most damaging weapons in a relationship, as it tells the other person that it’s not okay to be themselves. This builds resentment in them, and will eventually crumble even the most intimate relationships. If it doesn’t crumble, then it suffers. Today’s episode is how our triggers form our judgments, and how our judgments can ruin our life if we don’t learn what to do with them.  [Read more…]

Knowing is a box – The Commitment to Open Mindedness

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Have you ever known something to be true, only to find out you were completely wrong? I’ve had arguments with people where half-way through I figured out I was wrong, but I still held my ground because of my commitment to winning. It’s time to learn how to create and keep an open mind so that you are flexible in all of life’s challenges.  “Knowing” something limits what more you can know, but admitting that you don’t know everything opens the the door to endless possibilities.

Sounds like a great topic for discussion!

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Honoring Your Personal Boundaries – Revisited

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What does it take to honor your boundaries and live from that authentic place inside you? Do you earn the respect your deserve? You might be surprised to find out that respect from others happens naturally when you honor yourself and your personal boundaries. Doing this shows the world who you really are, and what behavior is okay, and what is not.

You are worthy and deserve respect. Honor and respect yourself, and you’ll soon find that you are creating the life you want. [Read more…]

Dealing With the Victim Mentality

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There are true victims in the world, then there are chronic complainers who keep themselves in a victimized state, closing the door to progress, healing and growth.

It could have started in childhood, or sprung up when they were older, but those who have a victim mentality know one thing for sure: Nothing ever works out for them.

This belief system keeps them in a rut, and prevents them from seeing options that could be right in front of them.

Are you a self-perpetuating victim? Listen in and find out! [Read more…]

Empowerment Through Vulnerability

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vulnerabilityEmotions rise up from our core self, where we are both most vulnerable and powerful. When we can live from this core place inside of us, we can be authentic. When that happens, we are empowered to be our true selves.

Align your thoughts and feelings with your behavior, and you have a recipe for true success in your life. Step into your power in this episode. [Read more…]

Infidelity – An Overlooked Warning Sign and Healing in the Aftermath

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infidelity and cheatingInfidelity is one of the most painful experiences you can have next to losing a child, at least according to one therapist I talked to. The pain that is created from the betrayal is inevitable, and much healing will be needed in the aftermath. I discuss the one sign you need to pay attention to most when you suspect cheating in your relationship. I also talk about working through and healing in the aftermath.

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Releasing Emotional Triggers in Relationships

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Emotional triggers are the surprises that we get when someone we love, or a situation, causes us to have a reaction that we haven’t processed yet. If you were yelled at as a child, and you attached fear to being yelled at, then you might get triggered as an adult when someone around you as yelling.

Triggers are childhood beliefs that aren’t necessarily true anymore, and need to be addressed to save your relationships. Once you release your old triggers, you can view the world from an entirely different place, instead of through the eyes of a fearful child. [Read more…]

Repressed emotions cause harm to the body

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repressed emotional painThe deepest recesses of our subconscious mind are where our repressed, negative thoughts and emotions linger, causing harm to both our daily thought processes and our body! Want to know why thinking positively doesn’t seem to work sometimes? It’s because we’re holding on to some deeper stuff that needs released. And what happens when you release this stuff? Positive thinking comes naturally. No affirmations needed for today’s episode.

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