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When your top values aren’t being met, the rest of it falls apart

When your top values aren't being met, the rest of it falls apart
When your top values aren't being met, the rest of it falls apart
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When your top values aren't being met, the rest of it falls apart
May 3, 2020

When your top level values are being met in your relationships, the rest of it usually works out. When they aren’t, you suffer and the relationship often fails. Every relationship, whether it’s platonic, romantic, or family, contains components that make up what we value.

Trust contains confidence and honesty whereas distrust contains fear and stress. I talk about that and read a few emails making for a variety show today.  

Filed Under: Depression, Healthy Thinking, Podcast Episode, Suffering, Values Tagged With: I keep sabotaging my relationships, Nothing ever works out for me, Why do I keep sabotaging my happiness?

When loved ones reject your reality and replace it with their own

When loved ones reject your reality and replace it with their own
When loved ones reject your reality and replace it with their own
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When loved ones reject your reality and replace it with their own
October 25, 2020

Your mental health is too important to let those in denial ignore your suffering and invalidate your experience. The solution to someone’s ignorance could be to put the harsh truth in their face.

Or it could be to just accept that some people will always be blissfully unaware or in full denial. Acceptance that you can’t get through to everyone might be the one reality you can rely on.

Filed Under: abuse, Control, Dysfunction, Emotional Abuse, Family, Finances, Podcast Episode Tagged With: Blaming me for small things, Parents are gaslighting me, Sexually assaulted and parents aren't supportive

The inside the box thinking that keeps your emotional triggers alive

The inside the box thinking that keeps your emotional triggers alive
The inside the box thinking that keeps your emotional triggers alive
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The inside the box thinking that keeps your emotional triggers alive
June 13, 2021

Albert Einstein said, “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”

When you aren’t getting the results you want today, or you find yourself easily triggered by certain events or people, you may be carrying around old baggage that perhaps requires a level of thinking just outside the box.

Many unresolved emotions sit outside the box of current thinking. If you don’t want to go outside that box, it could be why you’re stuck.

Filed Under: anger, anxiety, Emotional Triggers, Healthy Thinking, Podcast Episode, Toxic Thinking Tagged With: Difficulty making decisions, How to stop getting triggered, Working on reacting with anger

Following the path that serves you best even if it feels the worst

Following the path that serves you best even if it feels the worst
Following the path that serves you best even if it feels the worst
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Following the path that serves you best even if it feels the worst
January 9, 2022

Sometimes you have to let things go and take a new road in order to find a sense of peace and comfort inside yourself. The new road may come with a high price that has an even higher reward.

Are you going to pay the high price for the reward, or take a longer path that involves a bit more mental labor? They are both challenging but they both lead to an outcome that is worth the journey.

Filed Under: anxiety, Control, Decisions, Fears, Overwhelm, Podcast Episode Tagged With: How do I make a hard decision?, What if I can't make a difficult decision?, What path do I take when they're all hard?

The Pain of Loss

The pain of loss
The pain of loss
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The pain of loss
January 2, 2022

The pain of loss shouldn’t be stuffed down and avoided, it should be felt at the deepest level, but only when you’re ready and only at the pace you can handle. Everyone experiences loss differently so what works for one person may not work for you.

In this episode, I help you connect with the deeper layers underneath the loss so that perhaps there can be some small release or relief. This isn’t about healing, it’s about connecting. And sometimes that’s all that’s needed to start healing.

Filed Under: Abandonment, Death, Depression, Divorce, Loneliness, Loss, Mourning Tagged With: Get over the sadness of someone who died, How do I deal with the pain of loss?, How do I get over death?

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