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When you want sex and they don’t
Sex doesn’t start in the bedroom. It doesn’t begin when clothes come off or when you climb under the sheets.
The foundation for a fulfilling intimate life is built in every moment you’re not thinking about sex at all in the grocery store, during dinner, while watching TV, and in how you speak to your partner when you’re tired or stressed.
What happens outside the bedroom creates the bigger picture of your relationship, and that bigger picture is exactly what you bring into your most vulnerable moments together.
(more…)Wanting more than friendship when they don’t
I think the phrase, “Lovers for a moment, friends for a lifetime,” is very true in many cases. Sometimes a friendship can develop into something more.
Other times, a development could end what was already great as-is. Does love conquer all?
(more…)The traps some people set for us by playing the victim
If you find yourself questioning whether it’s okay to step back from someone who is always playing the victim (and perhaps blaming you for almost everything wrong in their life), you need a way out and a way back to your sanity and well-being.
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