I received an email from a woman whose husband cheated on her, then made her life a living hell during the divorce. She is depressed and has lost her desire for most things in life. Is there a solution to all of this?
How do you get from defeated and controlled to empowered and in control when you’re going through a long, dirty divorce?
Also, I also talk about wanting to be the rescuer and always coming to the aid of others (even if they aren’t looking for your help). Is this a healthy behavior?
Finally, I talk about Dr. David Eagleman’s Ted Talk on the possibility of all things. It’s a fascinating talk and helps you open areas of your mind that may be closed off.
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![]() | Paul Colaianni Paul Colaianni is an Emotional Abuse Expert and Behavior and Relationship Specialist who has been analyzing complex relationship dynamics since 2010. As the creator of the Healed Being program and host of the top-rated Love and Abuse and The Overwhelmed Brain podcasts, with over 21 million downloads worldwide, he specializes in helping people recognize hidden manipulation, navigate emotionally abusive relationships, and empower themselves to make informed decisions. |


