Do you value what your partner values? If not, you may be in for a rude awakening when they suddenly get upset with you for seemingly no reason. What’s important to you may not be important to them, and vice versa, but it might be a good idea to make what they value important to you since your relationship’s longevity may depend on it.
In this episode Matthew Bivens and I tackle an email where he forgets to lock the door and she resents him for it because she’s been through a traumatic event and needs to know she is safe at home. When her boyfriend can’t remember to lock the door, it causes huge issues and may be the final straw that ends the relationship.