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The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable

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The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable
The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable
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The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable
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When you live with your romantic partner and their relatives, and your partner doesn’t seem to want that to change, what do you do?

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Filed Under: Abandonment, Control, Decisions, Divorce, Insecurity, Podcast Episode, Relationships Tagged With: I am not happy in my relationship but my partner is, I feel stuck in my living situation, My partner says everything is fine but it’s not, My relationship doesn’t feel loving

Sometimes you have no options left so you become depressed

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Sometimes you have no options left so you become depressed
Sometimes you have no options left so you become depressed
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Sometimes you have no options left so you become depressed
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Feeling stuck, like really stuck, sucks. And when you feel like you have no other options but to accept your circumstances, it can feel sad.

And sometimes, you can even become depressed, making you wish you could at least feel sad again!

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Filed Under: Decisions, Depression, Podcast Episode Tagged With: I have no choice, I have no options left, No matter what I do I'm screwed

When the fear of failure stops you from doing anything and everything

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When the fear of failure stops you from doing anything and everything
When the fear of failure stops you from doing anything and everything
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When the fear of failure stops you from doing anything and everything
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It’s one thing to be afraid to fall off your bike. It’s another to never consider riding one at all, just in case you fall.

The fear of failing can be imagined as so traumatic and painful to some that they literally do nothing instead. As you know, doing nothing leaves you in a rut. It is the fastest way to go nowhere.

It’s time to redefine failure and learn what success actually feels like.

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Filed Under: anxiety, Decisions, Fears, Insecurity, Podcast Episode Tagged With: afraid of not succeeding, fear of failure, fears and insecurities

When friends and family think you’re making a bad decision

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When friends and family think you’re making a bad decision
When friends and family think you’re making a bad decision
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When friends and family think you’re making a bad decision
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Your friends and family really want the best for you. But what are they going to say when they see you make a decision they believe is just crazy?

A woman wrote to me and told me she decided to take a break from her husband after telling her friends and family how awful he was. Now she is considering taking him back, and she has no idea how to face them and tell them the news.

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Filed Under: Decisions, Emotional Abuse, Personal Boundaries, Podcast Episode, Self-Worth Tagged With: Decisions without family and friends' support, My friends think I'm making a bad decision

Email Grab Bag 4 – Rising toleration of bad behavior, from victim to victor, porn ruining the relationship

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Email Grab Bag 4 – Rising toleration of bad behavior, from victim to victor, porn ruining the relationship
Email Grab Bag 4 – Rising toleration of bad behavior, from victim to victor, porn ruining the relationship
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Email Grab Bag 4 – Rising toleration of bad behavior, from victim to victor, porn ruining the relationship
September 26, 2021
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I read three emails from people in three different circumstances. The first one is about a troubled marriage where the wife doesn’t know why she is staying and can’t figure out how to make the decision to leave.

Segment two is about dealing with the victim mentality and what questions you can ask a chronic complainer in order to get them to do something about what they’re complaining about.

Segment three is about a wife who discovered her husband watches porn and since then their once happy, amazing marriage is now in shambles with little hope for the future. Lots to talk about in this episode!

Filed Under: Addiction, Decisions, Divorce, Marriage, Podcast Episode, Relationships, Victim Mentality Tagged With: porn addiction, the victim mentality, troubled marriage

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