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Constantly accused for things you didn’t do

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Constantly accused for things you didn't do
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Constantly accused for things you didn't do

Ever feel like you’re the one always under fire, the scapegoat for every misstep?

When you are under constant accusation for things you didn’t do (but are being convinced you did), it’s time to learn the truth about what’s really happening here.

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Filed Under: Emotional Abuse, Emotional Healing, Emotional Intelligence, Personal Boundaries, Relationships, Self-Worth Tagged With: I am always apologizing even when I did nothing wrong, I feel like everything I do is wrong in this relationship, My partner accuses me of things I did not do, They say I am a liar but I am not

It’s in some people’s nature to bring you down and drain your energy

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It's in some people's nature to bring you down and drain your energy
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It's in some people's nature to bring you down and drain your energy

If someone’s passive-aggressive remarks are making you question your own self-worth, how can you take back control? There are ways to handle toxic interactions and keep your power.

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Filed Under: Emotional Abuse, Emotional Intelligence, Manipulation, Personal Boundaries, Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Toxic People Tagged With: I feel like I have to explain myself to certain people all the time, I walk away from conversations feeling powerless and small, Some people always make me feel drained after talking to them, Someone keeps asking me questions that make me feel bad about myself

How many strikes do you give someone before they’re out?

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How many strikes do you give someone before they’re out?
How many strikes do you give someone before they’re out?
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How many strikes do you give someone before they’re out?
April 16, 2023
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How many chances does someone deserve before you’ve had enough? At what point do you accept that things will never, ever change?

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Filed Under: Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Marriage, Personal Boundaries, Relationships Tagged With: I can’t handle the emotional ups and downs anymore, I’m stuck in a cycle of hurt and hope, My partner says everything is fine but it’s not, My relationship doesn’t feel loving

When it’s always your fault

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When it’s always your fault
When it’s always your fault
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When it’s always your fault
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If you find yourself constantly being blamed for everything going wrong, it’s time to question whether you’re being manipulated into believing what may be a deflection. In this episode, I tackle the sometimes tricky dynamics of responsibility and blame.

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Filed Under: Dysfunction, Emotional Abuse, Lying, Manipulation, Personal Boundaries, Relationships, Self-Worth Tagged With: I can’t stop feeling guilty even when I haven’t done anything wrong, I feel like everything is my fault in this relationship, I try to fix things but nothing ever changes, My partner blames me for everything and I don’t know why

You hurt me and now I want you to hurt… forever

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You hurt me and now I want you to hurt… forever
You hurt me and now I want you to hurt… forever
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You hurt me and now I want you to hurt… forever
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Some people do not want to forgive and forget. If you’ve ever wronged someone, felt guilty about it, and apologized, but they weren’t able to let it go, will there ever be a chance to make up with them and move on?

When someone is stuck in the past of what you did to them or what they perceived you did to them, they may believe making up is impossible, and you will be the “bad guy” forever.

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Filed Under: Emotional Abuse, Emotional Withdrawal, Family, Guilt, Relationships Tagged With: They said they hate me forever, They said they'll never forgive me, They want me to hurt for the rest of my life

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