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The Physical Symptoms of Emotional Turmoil

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The physical symptoms of emotional turmoil – The Unfaithful Husband and the Wife Who Never Let it Go – A Story of Giving for the Holidays
The physical symptoms of emotional turmoil – The Unfaithful Husband and the Wife Who Never Let it Go – A Story of Giving for the Holidays
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The physical symptoms of emotional turmoil – The Unfaithful Husband and the Wife Who Never Let it Go – A Story of Giving for the Holidays
December 20, 2015

Marianne Williamson said, “Allopathic doctors used to laugh condescendingly at those who posited that psychological, emotional, and spiritual factors were important contributors to the sickness as well as healing of the body.”

After I got married, I developed stomach issues. My stomach would burn after I ate anything with tomato sauce, onions, or garlic. So, pizza was killing me!

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Filed Under: Behavior, Negative Emotions, Physical Health Tagged With: acid, anger, I get acid reflux when I'm angry, medical

It’s Okay to Feel Okay Even When There’s Pain and Suffering in the World

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Finding peace when so many people are suffering – Listener email about desperately wanting to save a relationship – inner emotion expressed outwardly through voice and movement
Finding peace when so many people are suffering – Listener email about desperately wanting to save a relationship – inner emotion expressed outwardly through voice and movement
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Finding peace when so many people are suffering – Listener email about desperately wanting to save a relationship – inner emotion expressed outwardly through voice and movement
December 13, 2015

It’s amazing the little things we get upset about. Any one of us could be standing in line at the grocery store and it could be moving along fine. Then, the person ahead of you pulls out all their coupons and delays our progress.

Then, they pull out an out-of-state check which prompts the cashier to call the manager over to verify it.

And while this is happening, we’re getting less and less patient. Then we might think to ourselves, “How much longer is this going to take?”

We might get angry or even resentful towards them or even ourselves for getting into the wrong line in the first place.

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Filed Under: Behavior, Human Potential, Negative Emotions Tagged With: bombings, focus, happiness, shootings, terrorism, unhappy

“I Want to End My Life” – A letter from a 14 year old considering suicide – special episode

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“I Want to End My Life” – A Letter from a 14 Year Old Considering Suicide – Special Episode
“I Want to End My Life” – A Letter from a 14 Year Old Considering Suicide – Special Episode
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“I Want to End My Life” – A Letter from a 14 Year Old Considering Suicide – Special Episode
December 6, 2015

The email was anonymous so I had no information on her whatsoever. In fact, she made sure to conceal anything that identified her, probably so I wouldn’t just pick up the phone and call 911.

But I wouldn’t have done that anyway. Of course, she didn’t know that.

In fact, her letter to me was, in her words, a “last-ditch effort”.

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Filed Under: Ask Paul, Behavior, Human Potential, Negative Emotions, Podcast Episode Tagged With: death, dying, struggle, suicide

Self-Worth, Self-Esteem, and Handling Situations as the Child or the Adult

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Self-Worth, Self-Esteem and Choosing to Handle Situations as the Child or the Adult
Self-Worth, Self-Esteem and Choosing to Handle Situations as the Child or the Adult
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Self-Worth, Self-Esteem and Choosing to Handle Situations as the Child or the Adult
October 25, 2015

Your self-worth starts when you interpret what your parents or caretakers think about you. If you interpret that they don’t value you, you don’t value yourself.

As the years go by, your self-esteem builds from your level of self-worth. If you have low self-worth as a child, you have low self-esteem as an adult. It’s time to rebuild both so that you don’t have so much fear and insecurity in your life.

Also, I read an email from a listener who is struggling between being a child and an adult in different situations. It’s constantly stressing him out and he can’t seem to step into that adult role when needed.

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Filed Under: Behavior, Human Potential, Negative Emotions, Personal Boundaries, Relationships Tagged With: How can I feel more worthy?, How do I increase my self-worth?, I have low self-esteem

Do You Control Fate – Recovering From The Lies You’ve Told – You Can Spot a Fake Laugh and inauthentic behavior

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Do You Control Fate – Recovering From The Lies You’ve Told – You Can Spot a Fake Laugh and inauthentic behavior
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Do You Control Fate – Recovering From The Lies You’ve Told – You Can Spot a Fake Laugh and inauthentic behavior
October 11, 2015
fate lying and laughter

Is fate what we make or what we create? In segment one, I talk about a quote from Carl Jung on this very topic.

Today’s listener email has to do with being caught in a lie with family and what to do in the aftermath. It’s an interesting listen in segment two.

For segment three, I talk about spotting fake or forced laughter. In the final segment, I share my thoughts about a very dysfunctional family member of mine who’s trying to worm his way back into my family’s lives but is having a heck of a time getting any cooperation (hint, it’s my stepfather).

Filed Under: Behavior, Deception, Dysfunction, Family, Human Potential, Lying, Manipulation, Negative Emotions, Personal Boundaries Tagged With: deception, fate, laughter, lies, lying

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