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Judgment – The Ultimate Relationship Destroyer

November 8, 2014 By Paul Colaianni Leave a Comment

Judgment can be one of the most damaging weapons in a relationship, as it tells your partner that it’s not okay to be themselves. This builds resentment in them and will eventually crumble even the most intimate relationships.

If it doesn’t crumble then it suffers. This article explains how your triggers form your judgments and how your judgments can ruin your life if you don’t learn what to do with them. [Read more…]

Episode 0033: Relationship Love, Acceptance and the Decision to Leave or Stay

May 3, 2014 By Paul Colaianni 16 Comments

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Can you accept the behaviors of those you love? If not, are you still in the relationship? You have a choice to walk away from the behaviors you can’t accept in life, or stay and accept them. In the end, what you really want is closure. Knowing the direction you need to take is a much more powerful place than waiting for something to happen. Lingering is no fun.

Click on the play button above the video to listen to the entire episode. Or choose to read it below. By the time you’re done, you’ll know if you’ve reached full acceptance of the people in your life, and if you are choosing to suffer or not. Yes, suffering can be a choice. When it comes to accepting what is, or not accepting, one choice leads to suffering, the other does not. [Read more…]