Does your partner corner you into a no-win situation? Do they ask you questions that make you wrong no matter what you say?
In the first segment, I talk about double binds in relationships and a couple of ways to get out of the no-win questioning that often happens in both non-abusive and abusive relationships.
For segment 2, I discuss lashing out and where it comes from. Are they new emotions that seem to originate in the moment or are they old, stored emotions that derived from a single point in time?
Regardless, lashing out can be quite damaging to a relationship so it’s time to get a grasp on what’s happened in your past.
During the close of the show, I address the victim of the cheater who takes the blame for their partner’s cheating.
Some people are convinced they are the cause for their partner making the conscious choice to cheat. You are not the cause. And I share with you why in this segment.
Tune into the Love and Abuse podcast to help you learn how to navigate difficult relationships
 | Paul Colaianni Paul Colaianni is an Emotional Abuse Expert and Behavior and Relationship Specialist who has been analyzing complex relationship dynamics since 2010. As the creator of the Healed Being program and host of the top-rated Love and Abuse and The Overwhelmed Brain podcasts, with over 21 million downloads worldwide, he specializes in helping people recognize hidden manipulation, navigate emotionally abusive relationships, and empower themselves to make informed decisions. |
