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When you’re “on” too much for others but not enough for yourself

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When you’re “on” too much for others but not enough for yourself
When you’re “on” too much for others but not enough for yourself
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When you’re always “on,” it means you put on your game face in every interaction with others. It’s like being in customer service and having to smile at every single customer that walks in the door.

Do this all day and you’ll probably want to crawl inside your shell when you get home. In this episode, I talk about what this is like from celebrities to baristas to anyone that feels like they need to be “on” all the time.

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Filed Under: Insecurity, People Pleaser, Personal Boundaries, Podcast Episode, Resentment Tagged With: I don’t feel worthy of love because of my mom’s behavior, I want to change but I don’t know how, My partner says everything is fine but it’s not, My relationship doesn’t feel loving

Where do you look when you believe “this” is all there is?

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Where do you look when you believe “this” is all there is?
Where do you look when you believe “this” is all there is?
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Where do you look when you believe “this” is all there is?
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How deep do you have to dig in order to figure out who you are? What does it take to respond to the world from that deeper, authentic place inside of you?

It can be a spiritual journey for some, but there are practical methods to understand yourself at the deepest level, too. 

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Filed Under: Beliefs, Depression, Emotional Healing, Finding peace, Loneliness, Mindfulness, Overwhelm, Podcast Episode, Suffering, Thinking

The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable

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The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable
The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable
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The partner who likes things as they are when you’re just miserable
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When you live with your romantic partner and their relatives, and your partner doesn’t seem to want that to change, what do you do?

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Filed Under: Abandonment, Control, Decisions, Divorce, Insecurity, Podcast Episode, Relationships Tagged With: I am not happy in my relationship but my partner is, I feel stuck in my living situation, My partner says everything is fine but it’s not, My relationship doesn’t feel loving

Putting an end to your own passive aggressive behavior

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Putting an end to your own passive aggressive behavior
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A listener shared with me that someone called her passive-aggressive. She had no clue that that’s what she was doing, but she asked me how to identify it in herself and how and why it comes about. I address this very important subject in this article.

The article below is an addendum to today’s episode. Also, in this episode, I bring up a very difficult situation where someone has a husband who is not only disabled, which can be challenging enough, but also abusive. The wife is stuck and doesn’t know what to do.

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Filed Under: anger, Dysfunction, Personal Boundaries, Podcast Episode Tagged With: Afraid to speak up, how to stop being passive-aggressive, say what you mean

How to avoid destroying yourself with guilt

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So you did something you regret, and now you walk around feeling guilty all the time.

Guilt isn’t something you keep. It’s supposed to be a message that disappears after you’ve learned the lesson. If you carry guilt long after the event, it may be time to release it.

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Filed Under: Guilt, Podcast Episode Tagged With: How do I get rid of this guilt?, I am destroying myself with guilt, I feel so guilty

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