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Emotional Intelligence for Critical Thinkers

Are you capable of emotional abuse?

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Are you capable of emotional abuse?
Are you capable of emotional abuse?
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Are you capable of emotional abuse?
May 13, 2018
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Would you know if you were being emotionally abusive? There is a question you can ask yourself to determine if you are being emotionally abusive or not.

Once you know the question, you can change how you communicate with anyone.

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    For more information, visit https://healedbeing.com

    Important: If you are hurting someone you care about and want to change that about yourself while also giving your relationship the best chance at healing, click here to start your free lessons right away with the Healed Being course.

    For more on emotional abuse, control, and manipulation in relationships, visit loveandabuse.com.

    When you feel unlovable and unworthy

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    When you feel unlovable and unworthy
    When you feel unlovable and unworthy
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    When you feel unlovable and unworthy
    April 15, 2018
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    If you’ve ever come out of a relationship feeling unlovable and unworthy, it’s time to consider the source of this false belief and how you are sabotaging yourself for future relationships.

    Also, I read an email about conditional versus unconditional love and just what makes up love anyway.

    Controlling upset toward others – Feeding dysfunctional people – Full commitment then re-evaluation

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    Controlling upset toward others – Feeding dysfunctional people – Full commitment then re-evaluation
    Controlling upset toward others – Feeding dysfunctional people – Full commitment then re-evaluation
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    Controlling upset toward others – Feeding dysfunctional people – Full commitment then re-evaluation
    February 18, 2018
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    When you get angry, frustrated or upset toward someone else, how quickly do you recover? Would you like to recover faster and get into a better space?

    In segment one, I go over the five questions you can ask yourself that might just bring you out of the bad feeling you’re in. For segment two, I share how you might be feeding the dysfunctions of others in your life. If you feed someone else’s dysfunction, they’ll continue to show up in a way you don’t like over and over again.

    In segment three, I talk about commitment and how just because you signed up for life, doesn’t mean you have to see it through – especially if the person you’re with has changed the rules and isn’t keeping up with their end of the bargain.

    10 Steps to Keep Your Relationship from Slipping into Dysfunction

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    If your relationship has gone through its ups and downs but is now on a good path to prosper, you’ll probably want to keep it that way.

    Here are ten steps you can take to make sure your relationship stays healthy and continues to blossom. For more of an in-depth look at each step, listen to the episode attached to this post. 

    Important: If you believe that you may be doing emotionally abusive behavior and would like to change that about yourself, sign up for the life-changing Healed Being program over at healedbeing.com).

    If you are currently in a relationship with someone whose dysfunctions are hurtful to you, listen to my podcast Love and Abuse to help you navigate through the difficulties.

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    Breaking up for newbies – Enabling your own terrible relationship – Dating the emotional abuser

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    Breaking up for newbies – Enabling your own terrible relationship – Dating the emotional abuser
    Breaking up for newbies – Enabling your own terrible relationship – Dating the emotional abuser
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    Breaking up for newbies – Enabling your own terrible relationship – Dating the emotional abuser
    February 4, 2018
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    Segment 1: Without a history of breakups, your first major one can seem devastating and life-ending.

    In this segment, I help the newbie get through all the symptoms of the first major heartbreak.

    Segment 2: When you think your relationship is horrible and you find yourself taking up all the slack for your deadbeat other half, are you creating your own misery?

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