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Does Authenticity Make You Cringe – Getting Past Your Partner’s Past – Building Rapport with People

Does Authenticity Make You Cringe – Getting Past Your Partner's Past – Building Rapport with People
Does Authenticity Make You Cringe – Getting Past Your Partner's Past – Building Rapport with People
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Does Authenticity Make You Cringe – Getting Past Your Partner's Past – Building Rapport with People
June 25, 2017

When someone expresses themselves to you, do you cringe at the thought of you doing the same? Does the idea of sharing what they’re sharing make you feel uncomfortable? Does it stop you from living life the way you want with authenticity and confidence?

If you feel uncomfortable or shy when someone shares something vulnerable with you, that may be a sign that something could use some healing in you, if you want to explore it. It’s a great way to tell just what you need to work on in yourself.

Full expression can make you feel lighter and stronger at the same time, but it isn’t always easy to show up that authentically.

In the second segment, I read a letter from someone I call Larry. He said he can’t get his girlfriend’s two-night stand out of his head. Even though that relationship ended way before Larry met her, he still has an issue with it.

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Filed Under: abuse, anger, Ask Paul, Control, Emotional Abuse, Emotional Withdrawal, Human Potential, Jealousy, Marriage, Negative Emotions, Relationships, Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Sex, Vulnerability Tagged With: building rapport, cringing at your own authenticity, your partner's past

Fear-Based Decision Making – Wanting more than friendship – Giving it all away for free

Fear-Based Decision Making – Wanting more than friendship – Giving it all away for free
Fear-Based Decision Making – Wanting more than friendship – Giving it all away for free
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Fear-Based Decision Making – Wanting more than friendship – Giving it all away for free
May 14, 2017

Do you make decisions based on what’s in alignment with the highest intention for yourself, or do you make them based on fear?

One path almost always leads to turmoil and the other leads to getting what you want out of life almost every time. Fear-based decision making is the topic for segment one in today’s episode.

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Filed Under: anxiety, Ask Paul, Career, Decisions, Desires, Fears, Human Potential, Jealousy, Loneliness, Podcast Episode, Relationships, Thinking Tagged With: Fear-Based Decision Making, Giving it all away for free, Wanting more than friendship

A Journey into Jealousy – The Dysfunctional Family Holiday Season – Their Emotions are not Your Responsibility

Jealousy is a multi-faceted beast that can motivate you to say or do things that you may not normally say or do. It involves many emotions and can run (and ruin) your life if you don’t address the real reasons you get jealous.

Sometimes a fantasy is created in your head and you become jealous based on what may not even exist. Other times, there is hard data to prove that what you’re jealous about is real and should be investigated further (or acted upon). Is there a good reason to get jealous?

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Filed Under: Ask Paul, childhood, Family, Human Potential, Jealousy, Negative Emotions, Personal Boundaries, Podcast Episode, Relationships Tagged With: How to stop being jealous, The Dysfunctional Family Holiday Season, Their Emotions are not Your Responsibility

Measuring Your Worth and Esteem – Jealous and Insecure in the Relationship

Measuring Your Worth and Esteem – Jealous and Insecure in the Relationship
Measuring Your Worth and Esteem – Jealous and Insecure in the Relationship
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Measuring Your Worth and Esteem – Jealous and Insecure in the Relationship
October 9, 2016

Self-esteem stems from the level of self-worth you have about yourself. How do you raise either or both so that you can walk through life confidently and assert yourself when needed?

There’s “street knowledge” then there’s book (academic) knowledge. Street Knowledge is having real-world experience. Book knowledge is when you know what to do but don’t necessarily know how to do it, or have the courage to do it.

In the Ask Paul segment, I read a letter from a jealous husband who doesn’t like it when other people look at his wife. He can’t figure out how to get past these feelings.

Insecurities abound in this segment so it’s a great segue from the last one. There’s a little bit of ego involved, a leap of faith, and a lot of trust that may need to be built up in order to allow the jealousy to go away.

Filed Under: Ask Paul, Behavior, Human Potential, Insecurity, Jealousy, Marriage, Negative Emotions, Personal Boundaries, Podcast Episode, Relationships Tagged With: I don't feel loved or important, Jealous and Insecure In Your Relationship?, Measuring Your Self-Worth and Self-Esteem

Surviving Infidelity – An Overlooked Warning Sign and Healing After Cheating

Infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences you can have next to losing a child. The pain that is created by the betrayal is nearly unbearable, and much healing is needed afterward, whether you stay in the relationship or not.

In this article, I talk about one sign you need to pay attention to most when you suspect cheating in your relationship. Then after an affair is discovered, the emotional wounding that takes place will need mending and healing.

(after you read this article, be sure to tune into the Love and Abuse podcast for more on infidelity and navigating the difficult relationship)

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Filed Under: abuse, Betrayal, Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Emotional Withdrawal, Forgiveness, Infidelity, Jealousy, Manipulation, Marriage, Negative Emotions, Relationships, Toxic People Tagged With: How can I get over the pain of the affair?, How do I get past his cheating?, husband cheated on me, I think my spouse is cheating, I'm in so much pain because she cheated, wife cheated on me

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